I have always wondered about what being average means. Some quotes that I came across have led me to reflect deeply on this topic:

“Your success will be determined by how you respond to punctuated moments of terror, not the years spent on cruise control.”

Genius is the man or woman who can do the average thing when all those around them are going crazy.

A wise old owl lived in an oak,
The more he saw the less he spoke,
The less he spoke, the more he heard,
Why can’t we all be like that wise old bird?

Throughout my life, I have witnessed the power of simplicity and resilience, especially during the most challenging times. From passing the critical 11th and 12th grades to pursuing engineering, finding a job at Mu Sigma, and navigating my dad and mom’s cancer treatment, the ability to stick to the basics has always served me well.

Life, as we all know, is filled with its fair share of obstacles and hurdles. These challenges can result in either good or bad luck, but what truly matters is how we respond to them. Throughout all these experiences, maintaining composure and focusing on simple, deliberate actions have been key.

For instance, during my mom and dad’s cancer treatment, the pressure and emotional strain were immense. It was a time of uncertainty and fear, yet sticking to a routine and focusing on what we could control helped us get through it. Similarly, when I decided to move to America, it was a leap into the unknown. Building a new life from scratch required immense courage and patience. Letting go of the past and calming my mind allowed me to embrace this new chapter with resilience.

These experiences have taught me that life is not about running towards the next big thing or seeking constant excitement. Instead, it’s about finding meaning in the simple, everyday actions. It’s about being like that wise old owl—seeing more, speaking less, and truly hearing what matters.

Maintaining composure and sticking to the basics during tough times are invaluable strategies. They emphasize the importance of resilience and calmness in overcoming obstacles and pursuing a meaningful life. By doing so, we can navigate through life’s storms with grace and emerge stronger on the other side.

In conclusion, remember that success is not defined by how smoothly we sail through life, but by how we respond when the waves get rough. Embrace simplicity, stay grounded, and let resilience be your guiding star.